Best advice ever

Don't save MSN conversations. Private conversations. Whatever.

People find it and you never mean completely what you say. You get angry at a significant other/are peeved at a pal and you vent about it. It's healthy. Other people confide their secrets in you. You have a couple drinks and flirt with an ex.

All okay things. But nothing you want your current thing to read and get all whiny over.

[disclaimer: this is not a current issue in my life, but in the lives of friends]